13 June, 2010
Caning
20 August, 2009
Parents
Why parents must be held more accountable and responsible. I was talking to the unmarried
father of an 8 year old boy recently. He has a problem with the mother of his child. Every time he brings the child back to the mother after he has spent the weekend with him, the mother locks the child out of the house. She refuses to let him back in the house until he cries and begs to her satisfaction. She screams abuse at the child constantly. He has tried to get the Department of Social Development to help him, but there is nothing they can do under our present legal system. There is nothing the police or the court can do. There is no legal remedy. The mother has all the ‘rights’ and the father only has ‘obligations’. His concern is that the lack of love and affection is going to turn his child into a criminal one of these days. He is so right.
The present serious juvenile crime situation in
That is why some social reformers advocate holding parents responsible. We need to put more pressure on parents to perform their parenting role. It should be backed up with educational programmes on how to be a good father and good mother. It always amazes me how many parents do not begin to understand how destructive their example and behaviour is. Then, when we point the finger at them, they respond by saying it is unfair. No, it is not unfair.
If a mother or father persistently permits their child to be a truant from school, that ought to be a crime on the part of the parent.
If a mother or father persistently permits their child to mix with gangsters, that ought to be a crime on the part of the parent.
If a mother or father persistently permits their child to bear arms and offensive weapons in the home, that ought to be a crime on the part of the parent.
The object is not to punish the parent. The object is to convince the parent that he or she needs to do more to monitor and supervise the behaviour and acquaintances of their child.
The result will not be a flooding of our jail with delinquent parents. The Magistrate will make an example of one or two, and suddenly attitudes will change.
It is not the fine or the jail that is the wake up call. It is being brought before the court and named and shamed that is the effective part of prosecuting a social crime. We have to face reality as a society and take active steps to break the cycle of child abuse and negligent parenting.
Of course, if we were rich like the Americans or the British, we could try doing like them and throwing lots of money at the problem. I don't see that working for them, and we certainly can’t make that a solution here.
Just my thoughts, while I thank God every day that I am not a parent myself.
20 November, 2008
Child Abuse
When a senior Civil Servant stands up for right, we should all stand up for her. The
As usual with all important social reform initiatives that were not thought up by a politician, the Report appears to have fallen into the black holes that exist at all our Ministries of Health.
Last September, the
I wonder whether
Deanna Look Loy of the
Deanna Look Loy
You might say that she has ratted on her Permanent Secretary.
If she was a senior public servant in
The cynical would say that Ms Look Loy must be very close to retirement age for her to dare do such a thing. Her photograph shows that nothing could be further from the truth. She is just one brave woman.
18 October, 2008
Teachers Matter
Teachers Matter. On Friday of last week the annual general meeting of the Anguilla Teachers Union took
place. I was asked to speak on the theme for this year's World Teachers' Day. A bit of research soon revealed that a lot of thinking and publishing has gone into the subject. I had no difficulty finding things to say.
While I was on the topic, it occurred to me that my experience with my arithmetic teacher might be relevant. So, I told the gathered teachers about Mr Rais. This was what I said:
“I want to tell you about Mr Rais. He was my arithmetic teacher when I went to boarding school in Trinidad at 9 years of age. This was a long time ago. The main teaching tool then was the chalk board and a wood-backed duster to wipe it clean from time to time. Mr Rais made me learn my tables. He taught additions, subtractions and multiplications. It must have been very boring for him. He used to pace up and down the spaces between the desks as we did our class assignments. He would peer over my shoulder at my exercise book. Every time he noticed an error, he would rap me on the top of my head with the wooden back of the duster.
To this day, I cannot multiply beyond 5. The 10 times table was easy. You just had to add a zero to the figure. If I have to work out 8 times 8, I can only do it by adding 3 times 8 to 5 times 8. Or, for variety, I might subtract 2 times 8 from 10 times 8. I failed mathematics at O-Level twice.
I loved physics and chemistry from Form 1. I asked for a chemistry set as a Christmas gift every year. I did well in those subjects right up to Form 5. Then, mathematics entered the picture. I failed both physics and chemistry at O-Level. When I think of that teacher, a special loathing rises in me.”
So, yes, teachers do matter. In more ways than one. And, yes, I joined the Union. I am now a fully paid up member.
If you would like to read the speech, it is available here.
10 October, 2008
Child Support
Child Support Reforms
Coming Soon to
The OECS family law reform project is now several years old. The result has been the production of several draft Bills that have been circulated to all the nine island states and territories of the OECS for consideration. The draft Bills in question are:
- The Child Justice Bill;
- Children (Care and Adoption) Bill;
- The Domestic Violence Bill;
- The Family Law (Guardianship, Custody and Access to Children) Bill;
- The Maintenance of Children Bill;
- The Status of Children Bill.
I am not sure to what extent this exercise has resulted in any practical legal reform in any of our states and territories. Certainly, none of the draft model laws have been debated in this island, far less enacted. All of the draft Bills contain excellent provisions that we in
As I told the officers to whom I was speaking, none of these reforms will come to the front of people’s attention unless someone lobbies and agitates for them. There is no department of government more involved with these issues than they are. Unless the staff of the Department take steps to lobby with the Mothers’
If you would like to have an idea what I spoke about, you can read my notes for the speech by clicking here.
17 December, 2006
Recent Interesting Issues
Previous Issues on Which Correspondence Has Been Received:
The following issues have arisen in earlier posts. Material is being collected on each of them. We want to hear from you on each issue.
(a) “Airport Project” – See post No 3, published on 11 December 2006.
(b) “Altamar” – See post No 3.
(c) “Callaloo Resort” – See post No 3.
(d) “Cocaine Imports” – See post No 4 , published on 12 December 2006; and post No 5, published on 13 December 2006.
(e) “Cocaine Distribution” – See post No 4.
(f) “Corruption” – See post No 5.
(g) “Dog-fighting” – See post No 4.
(h) “Human Trafficking” – See post No 4.
(i) “International Anti-corruption Day 2006” – See post No 1 , published on 10 December 2006.
(j) “Ministerial Conflicts of Interest” – See post No 5.
(k) “Postage Paid stamps” – See post No 3.
(l) “Prostitution” – See post No 4.
(m) “Public Involvement” – See post No 5.
(n) “Road-paving Contracts” – See post No 3.
(o) “Security Issues” – See post No 5.
(p) “Trans-shipment Project” – See post No 3.
(q) “Whistle-blowing” – See post No 2, published on 10 December 2006.
Each discussion issue is in alphabetical order. The purpose of this is threefold:
First, to remind you of them.
Second, to invite you to access them and add your anonymous comment.
Third, to encourage you to email me with comments or material on other “good governance” issues in
Recent Interesting Issues on Which Correspondence Has Been Received:
1. “Drag Car Racing”. Racing cars on the public roads of
2. “Abuse of Immigrants”. We often hear of the fear that increased numbers of immigrants will damage our society. They will be a burden on our education and health system. Less openly discussed is the extensive network of mechanisms being put in place by Anguillians to exploit the immigrants among us. This includes giving work for sexual favours, renting out unhygienic accommodation to desparate people, and paying slave wages. Feel free to send me your horror stories, either for publication or not, as you choose. You may name names without any fear that I will publish your identity unless you authorize it.
3. “Smugglers’ Cove”. Like most other Anguillians, I had believed the wharf at the Cove was for use by fishermen. I was interested to hear Alan Gumbs’ description of its principal use on a recent edition of “To the Point”. For the benefit of those who do not listen to
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5. “Solicitation of Minors in School”. Another correspondent reminds me that problems of corruption in
6. “Corruption”. For a change of pace, you might like to read this comment from the Guardian Newspaper about the state of corruption in





